Monday, January 17, 2022

What Talking in Circles Showed Me about God

When my husband and I were in the early days of our relationship, I remember finding it difficult to be patient whenever he would tell me stories about his day or his past. It wasn’t that I wasn’t interested, it was just that he seemed to be repeating the same details over and over in the course of a few minutes. “Yes, I got it the first time,” it was hard not to say. But thankfully a friend of mine, who had lived for a time in the Middle East, mentioned one day how Arabs speak circularly and how that can be difficult for Americans, who are very linear by nature, to adjust to.

In case you haven’t noticed, Americans are typically get-to-the-point, cut-to-the-chase, keep-moving-forward kind of people. Repeating the same parts of the story over and over again is a waste of time and energy—and Americans (generally, as a whole) are all about efficiency, productivity, and time. Arabs, on the other hand, are much more laid-back when it comes to life in general. Time is more of an afterthought rather than the ruler of the day; projects don’t have to be completed all in one day just because they can be; community (socializing) and refreshment (rest and food) often take precedence over productivity. 

So when my friend mentioned how the different communication styles are connected to these differences between the cultures, suddenly, it all made sense. My future husband was just communicating in the way his culture had trained him to. And my impatience was just a reflection of the way my brain had been trained to communicate in my culture and how it hadn’t yet grown to the point where it could adapt between the two.

I’m still a work in progress, but with God’s help, I’m learning to be more patient, especially since now it’s not just my husband but my whole community who communicate in a circular way. And while it can be frustrating in the meantime as my brain continues to adjust, I have found that once again a cultural difference has enlightened my understanding of God and of the Bible.

Have you ever noticed particularly, it seems, in the Old Testament how repetitive the Bible is? I’m not talking about the kind of repetition that would indicate points of emphasis that we look for when studying a particular passage of Scripture. I’m talking about instances like in Daniel 3 where the phrase “the sound of the horn, pipe, lyre, trigon, harp, bagpipe, and every kind of music” is repeated almost ad nauseum in the account of Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego and the fiery furnace. Like, really? We get it. When you hear the music, you’re supposed to bow down. No need to tell us every single instrument—every single time.

Another example is Ezekiel 21:1-5 (ESV):

The word of the Lord came to me: “Son of man, set your face toward Jerusalem and preach against the sanctuaries. Prophesy against the land of Israel and say to the land of Israel, Thus says the Lord: Behold, I am against you and will draw my sword from its sheath and will cut off from you both righteous and wicked. Because I will cut off from you both righteous and wicked, therefore my sword shall be drawn from its sheath against all flesh from south to north. And all flesh shall know that I am the Lord. I have drawn my sword from its sheath; it shall not be sheathed again.”

Do you see the repetition and circular language? Look at the passage again, marked this time:

The word of the Lord came to me: “Son of man, set your face toward Jerusalem and preach against the sanctuaries. Prophesy against the land of Israel and say to the land of Israel, Thus says the Lord: Behold, I am against you and will draw my sword from its sheath and will cut off from you both righteous and wicked. Because I will cut off from you both righteous and wicked, therefore my sword shall be drawn from its sheath against all flesh from south to north. And all flesh shall know that I am the Lord. I have drawn my sword from its sheath; it shall not be sheathed again.”

I will draw my sword --> I will cut you off --> I will cut you off --> my sword shall be drawn --> I have drawn my sword.

And in Ezekiel 22:19-22 (ESV):

Therefore thus says the Lord God: Because you have all become dross, therefore, behold, I will gather you into the midst of Jerusalem. As one gathers silver and bronze and iron and lead and tin into a furnace, to blow the fire on it in order to melt it, so I will gather you in my anger and in my wrath, and I will put you in and melt you. I will gather you and blow on you with the fire of my wrath, and you shall be melted in the midst of it. As silver is melted in a furnace, so you shall be melted in the midst of it, and you shall know that I am the Lord; I have poured out my wrath upon you.”

Repeated again, with emphasis added:

Therefore thus says the Lord God: Because you have all become dross, therefore, behold, I will gather you into the midst of Jerusalem. As one gathers silver and bronze and iron and lead and tin into a furnace, to blow the fire on it in order to melt it, so I will gather you in my anger and in my wrath, and I will put you in and melt you. I will gather you and blow on you with the fire of my wrath, and you shall be melted in the midst of it. As silver is melted in a furnace, so you shall be melted in the midst of it, and you shall know that I am the Lord; I have poured out my wrath upon you.”

I will gather you --> as one gathers silver to melt it --> I will gather you in my wrath and melt you --> I will gather you and blow with my wrath, and you shall be melted --> as silver is melted you shall be melted from my wrath.

See the circle?

To my American brain, these passages are difficult to read, because it feels like God is just saying the same thing over and over again unnecessarily. But once I realized that this type of circular communication is a characteristic of Middle Eastern culture (likely reaching back to ancient days), I realized that God was speaking to the people in the way that they would understand. Daniel’s repetition of the phrase about all the instruments was a reflection of the communication style of his culture. And God’s words to Ezekiel were spoken in the form that fit the culture they were being spoken into.

So not only must we evaluate the Bible within its historical and cultural contexts, but also we can learn from doing so how kind and considerate and wise the God of the Bible is. Being the all-knowing Creator, He knows how every culture operates. And being the loving Communicator, He reveals Himself to us, His creatures, in ways we will understand. He did this in the days of the Bible, and He is still doing so today.

For example, have you noticed that there are so many more instances of people coming to know Jesus through dreams in Middle Eastern and Eastern cultures than in Western ones? Why is that? Perhaps it’s because dreams are an important part of non-western cultures, whereas westerners tend to be skeptical of dreams and more reliant on reasoning and written communication and because God knows this and provides avenues of learning about Him that will be most meaningful to the receiver.

But the ultimate example of God’s perfectly directed communication style is Jesus Himself. As Hebrews 1:1 says, “Long ago, at many times and in many ways, God spoke to our fathers by the prophets, but in these last days, he has spoken to us by his Son, whom he appointed the heir of all things, through whom also he created the world” (ESV). God reveals Himself through the written word in the Bible, as he spoke through the prophets in a way the people could understand. But God also revealed Himself in the living Word (see John 1) when He took on human flesh and lived a human life in a human culture so that we could have an intermediary between us and God who can actually relate to us experientially—to our emotions, our struggles, our joys—and to whom we can relate as well (see Hebrews 2:17-18; 4:14-16).

So whether it’s the repetitive passages in the Old Testament or the accounts of Jesus’ life in the New Testament, each serves as a reminder to us of the depth of God’s love. As we read all of Scripture in context and learn about Jesus, we see that God loves us enough to speak to us and, beyond that, to speak in a way that we can understand—even when that meant condescending to live bodily among us. What a wonderful, kind God He is!


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